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Life can be difficult following bereavement

So much can change after the death of a loved one.

We might miss them and the life we had before. We might be struggling with overwhelming emotions and unanswered questions. We might be facing practical and financial changes. For those who have had a religious faith, we might now be facing a crisis of faith. We might be lonely, angry, depressed, heartbroken, anxious, sad, feeling guilty, unable to sleep, eating too much or too little, confused, despairing, fearful of the future…

If this sounds familiar or part of your experience, then the Living with Loss project is here to help. Click on the links for further information.

Events and activities

(Update February 2024: Due to the developing health situation of my husband, most events are on hold, and I am unable to offer myself as a speaker or workshop leader for the time being. Please do still get in touch with enquiries, but it is unlikely I will be taking on any new in-person events in 2024 or possibly 2025, although I hope to run Zoom groups. I am leaving the following web pages as they are, but please bear this in mind when looking at what is on offer.)

Living with Loss retreats and supportive events that you can attend

Current retreat programme – find out where and when

“Grief companion” training: support others in their grief

Inviting Abi May as a guest speaker

Organising a LWL workshop at your church or community group

Read about grief: living with loss

Grief and its aftermath – a short description

A Christian perspective: Grief and the seasons of life

A Valley Journal blog: Articles on various topics, including personal experiences, resources and ideas for coping with grief. This blog is frequently updated.

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Information

The Living with Loss project is a member of the National Bereavement Alliance

Read about the Living with Loss project

The Living with Loss project is led by Abi May – a retreat leader, speaker, an educator, a doubly-bereaved mother, and author. Read about me here

NEW! Interviews (print & broadcast) with Abi can be found here

Now that our project is expanding we do need more support! You can support our work here – (external link to GoFundMe page). Any donations, large and small, are most welcome.


Abi (left) with Kate Bottley after being filmed for BBC Songs of Praise, broadcast 15 January 2023
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